My interests and experiences are many and I've
learned much over the years, and in my own
words.....know this much:
Water always finds its own level in Nature, we
tend to attract exactly what we put out, and the
people who are attracted to us are a
mirror-reflection of our own inner-self.
Chemistry is a smart animal. It's very subtle and
it works sub-consciously....both the good AND the
bad chemistry. Depending on your degree of
dysfunction and where you fall along the gradual
continuum of emotional baggage, chemistry can
either work for you or against you. Everyone has
some baggage, it's normal. It just depends on how
much, what kind, whether or not you manage IT or
it manages YOU and what you've decided to do about
it or have done with it.
At any given time in our lives, the person we
attract at that time is exactly at the same level
of emotional health as ourselves. It's how Nature
works. Don't try and fight it.
Whatever type of demons or "product" you have
resonating inside of you, rest assured, it will
"vibrate", arouse and capture that exact type
within someone else who harbors the same if you're
both tuned into the same frequency....like a
tuning fork to a crystal glass which are both
harmonically pitch-balanced to one another. The
forces of Nature are flawless like that. Most of
the time, we don't even know it's happening.
It's why functional, healthy people are attracted
to other emotionally healthy people and why
emotionally un-healthy people are attracted to
other dysfunctional people who harbor the same
kind of baggage they have, and it's why the two
opposites repel each other. A guy who has his head
out of his butt is not attracted to a woman who
keeps finding abusers over and over again and it's
also why women who have their heads out of their
butts are not drawn to men who are emotionally
retarded.
With all that being said, if you continue to keep
attracting 'Mr. Wrongs' over and over
again.....then it's time to grab the mirror. ;)
I truly believe, that each person who comes into
our lives over time, whether they stay or not, is
new horizon and a whole new world to be explored
inside of ourselves.
Thanks for checking me out - Joe
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