Subject: How To Keep Him From Cheating
Content: This looks like it could be an interesting book. What do you gals think? How To Keep Him From Cheating
A new book on why some men stray, and what women can do to stop it. NEWSWEEK: I think a woman
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s first instinct when seeing the cover of your book is,
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Why do I have to prevent this? Why doesn
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t he just not cheat?
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Gary Neuman:
There is clearly no blame on the woman if he's cheated. She's not
responsible for stopping him. However, the fact that you're not
responsible does not mean that you don't want to take an active role in
your relationship to bring out the best in your husband, as he should
for you. I've been a marriage counselor for more than 20 years now. I
think [hearing] women who have had the overwhelming pain of being
cheated on and the subsequent disaster for the kids definitely made me
want to find out what they could do other than be victims. Was there
something they could do to prevent this and create a mutually
beneficial relationship? When I was on [the] "Oprah" show, I talked
about 9/11 firefighters who had helped the wives of their fallen
comrades and ended up having affairs with them. I think that [example]
showed that a lot of men are essentially good people. They make
mistakes, but that's not who they are. So a lot of women are married to
men who are good but that does not mean they are not susceptible to
ultimately cheating. More here http://www.newsweek.com/id/160910?GT1=43001
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