Hi, ladies. I, too, insist on a clean house before decorating. Usually the day after Thanksgiving, we do a "fall" cleaning. Depending on the need for clean, it can be a couple days before it's time to unpack the joyous trimmings! We don't put up our tree until 2 weeks before Christmas because we usually get a live tree. The Douglas Fir tree is AWESOME for making the house smell green! We also leave our tree up until the first weekend after the new year.
I agree with most about the too-early marketing. When I was a child, I remember waiting for Gimble's Department Store to transform overnight on the day after Thanksgiving. The store would have Santa and an eye-catching wonderland in the window. That's when Christmas started. I remember small shops and boutiques, but today it's all about the mall. Now, it seems cheapened by commercialism. For me and my family, we have talked about how it's hard to get into the true spirit of the season. Maybe I'll blog that topic for further discussion...